Boyfriend still has active online dating profile
I think you should take his behavior very personally — not because I believe it's shitty for him to be on Tinder, but because it is shitty for him to be half-showing you.He's trying to skew the power of balance in the relationship, and that's not cool.I don't doubt that he loves me, and he doesn't do anything else to make me feel insecure about our relationship.But what's the point of talking to these chicks on Tinder? Cheers, Not a Trump fan Hey there, Not a Trump fan. Fortunately, though, I'm Canadian, and this election doesn't impact me nearly as much as it would impact you. You wanted blunt, so I'm going to try my best to do so, despite my apprehension for hurting your feelings. Considering your political inclination, you don't seem like a dumb person, but you're certainly acting that way in your relationship.Anyways - it basically came up with him showing as 'online today.' I was really shocked but anyway went onto google this and it turns out this is quite a common problem with people who use POF especially on the mobile app - on their forums online it has loads of threads where people have posted about this happening.Essentially as long as you have the mobile app installed, it can show online whenever you are connected to a wifi or data connection.
He tries to make it seem like he's just doing it out of boredom, which, I guess, is fine.Don't pull the self-righteous card, as there's nothing guys hate hearing more than "I don't deserve this," or "This isn't the way you treat a woman."Live outside the absolutes, and be clear and direct. Or don't do that, fake smile, shake it off and maybe just be happy he's not on Bumble. The next time he shows you Tinder, or the next time it comes up, ask him not to do it anymore. Regardless, though, he has to get rid of Tinder, without question. You've been far too generous at this point, and you need to stand up for yourself. Apologies for being rude, but you need someone to just come out and say it.Not only does he have to delete the app, but he must delete his entire account, which is a different process entirely. Tell him that, while using the app might be some lighthearted fun for him, it's hurting you. If there were ever a situation that didn't need analyzing, this was it.